Isn’t that the million dollar question that women consistently ponder about “what do men find attractive? What is considered beautiful seems to change constantly and we can barely keep up with what’s in style and what’s out of style but does that have an effect on attraction and on what qualities guys find attractive?

Qualities that make a woman attractive are;

1. Physical traits! Men are are prejudiced greatly by what they see and there are bodily characteristics that make a woman gorgeous. These include the bust and the shape, buns, face, body form, hair colour, smile and body decorations like body piercings etc with most of these being favoured differently in different societies and specific man. Regardless of what society and men value you must ensure that you are in great physical shape so that whatever features you have are firm and attractive to the eyes. Learn to dress you body to show off what you have been blessed with and to minimize what you don’t like so much.

2. Learn to like your body! This is critical to bring out all the physical traits that men find attractive. You have to learn to love yourself and your imperfect bits and pieces. If playing continually in your mind is the “I am as ugly as they come” melody in your mind you need to change that to “I am wonderfully made”. We all have some flaws but each woman also have some great things in the curves area and we need to focus on all the great stuff we have instead of the few things that we do not like about ourselves. If you do not love your body how do you expect men to be attracted to it?

3. Love the person that you are! Your body, personality and all that comprises of you. Your dry wit, your delightful smile, your self starter attitude, your ability to keep you cool when everyone else is going crazy…all the things that make you the exceptional human being that you are. People with a healthy self esteem are not demoralized by other people and are able to share the limelight with them. You can accommodate their attitudes and you tend to be fun to have around as you are not always trying to prove a point. Self doubting people are uninviting and nobody wants to be around someone who needs perpetual reassurance that their imperfections don’t bother you; and that no… you really do love them as they are etc..!

4. Get involved in life activities utilizing your gifts and that you find fulfillment doing. A contented woman who is not absorbed with just herself is what guys find attractive. A woman who loves herself and her life radiates joy and well being.

A woman of great beauty is one content with her body and with herself and who lives life to the full. She draws men to herself like moths to a light.

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