I'm 42, very attractive, creative, funny – yet single for 5 years. What are the chances of me meeting someone, falling in love and finding some modicum of happiness for a few years? I live in Scotland – population 6m – have never been married and have no children….Are my chances of experiencing true love diminishing, or increasing?

It seems you haven't realized yet. True love doesnt exist. Love doesnt just fall from the sky or appears in midair , You are such a fool. Your foolish and from your foolish ways you are struggling to meet someone who first of all has to be single, ATTRACTIVE, then he has to be creative, o and of course he has to be interested, your so lame you cant even see through your own eyes. At 42, its over, these men are probably trying to settle for younger women . That's what you get for treating the other guys who were interested in you, but you didn't give them a chance.

Thats what Steve told me once, Woman dont know when they have it good, then they wither away and act like they still got it, but in the end they've lost it. Its the Snow White vs. The Wicked Witch effect.

Ha ha ha ha ha…JEN JEN Is so funny, Crappy minds of women make crap out of men.

HA HA HA HA. thank you for the points sucker………hope you do meet your Fantastical MR. RIGHT…you dummy. Report Abuse

I'm confused by your question because there's no such thing as "…a single, attractive, witty, intelligent, interested, creative man". Sorry, doesn't exist. You might have more fun looking for unicorns or that pot of gold at the end of a rainbow…or you could lower your standards and pick something out of that BIG pile of crap over there called "men".

Hi Pauline,
I am a 26 year old single man living in Australia. I am USA born however. I feel that I can help to fill this feeling that you have right now. I am a former US solider, I am now a qualified chef, but I am now working security. I understand that I am reasonably intelligent (not that this counts for much, but my IQ sits at around 125) and I love to explore new and exciting things in life. I love travel, food ( and the occasional drink) I don't smoke and I am a clean sort of guy without all this pansy about sort of crap that I see other guys do with their pointy shoes, stupid haircuts and effeminate clothing style! I am quite classic with a clean cut look, blue jeans and a cotton shirt for me, a nice sturdy pair of shoes and a clean shave for me. I really enjoy all different kinds of music, movies and I like to read Yeats from time to time. I am open, honest and loving some may say that I wear my heart on my sleeve a bit… but that is only because I care. I am good with my hands ;) and age difference really doesn't count much to me. I am sure that if you give this a real chance love you may be pleasantly surprised in what you find in me. Don't be scared to drop me a line, ok?

Never give up on Love, you can find it everywhere, just depends on the quality & type of Love your looking for, like emotional or physical. 6 million, you could find someone, or look else where, online "wouldn't recommend it, due to some real sickos out there" or another country.

im an optimist, so i would say increasing. just continue to go on dates, let friends set you up, and if you guys have online dating in scotland, i would try that too. i know of many couples that married people they met online.

Diminishing.

There is always hope, never give up. Start looking online or places where you could make some friends. Remember there is someone out there for everyone.

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Yeah pretty much as age comes upon we lose our chances. But I dont think your sunk yet… GL hf

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