Never Be Left Wondering What to Say to a Girl

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Once you walk up to a woman there are a few things you can say to keep the conversation going.

Try this advice to make your conversations with women more enjoyable. Note:  Before trying any of this take a minute to remember that you are actually talking to a human being.

Make her work a little. Keep her guessing. Have her exert some effort. Sometimes you’ll be tested by women. These times are perfect for flipping the script and testing her back. When girls test men, the usual reaction is for a man to either pump himself up or to completely fold so as not to piss her off. Both of these will kill attraction.You will only be shooting yourself in the foot.

In this sort of situation, you can do two things. When she asks you how many women you’ve been with or what kind of car you own, you can either:

First, you can ask her “Why do you want to know?”  This only works if you say this from a frame of mind of authentic curiosity. This will let her have a chance to ask you what she really wants to know.

To clarify that, you are replying to her questions with questions. Keep this under control though or it might look like you are dodging the quesitions.

Second, you can tell her something that is funny but blatantly not true. Make it your goal to say the most embarrassing thing you can imagine. The lamer it is, the better. It just shows her that you are confident enough to make jokes about yourself. Very few men are bold enough to even kid around about something like their dating lives. When you do this and it’s obvious that you are merely joking with her, she will begin to see you as confident and smooth. If you are ever not sure what to say to a girl, try something funny.

Also flirt with the woman a bit. If you don’t let her know that you are into her, she might begin to see you platonically. Probably not your goal. It doesn’t have to be a big challenge to let a woman know you’re attracted to her. Don’t attempt to think up some orchestrated lecture about why the two of you are perfect for each other. That is plain bad. Simply keep talking with her until she says something that you are really impressed by. Then say something such as, “It’s really sexy how you care so much for your friends,” or “You are really turning me on when you speak Italian like that.”

Don’t even worry about sounding silly. It can be a little out there. In fact it’s more often than not better if it is original.

I hope you picked up a few tips on what to say to a woman. This isn’t brain surgury. Don’t take yourself too seriously.

If you liked this article, please also take a look at What to Say to a Girl, How to Start Conversations with Women, and Getting Women’s Phone Numbers

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