In this article, I will offer a discource on why guys cheat even when things are really good.  Girls always wonder if the unfaithfulness is due to a man’s craving for something different, unhappiness, or something the girl did. However, below is a letter from a woman handling a similar cheating boyfriend issue.

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Greetings, I am Danielle and have been in a relationship with my man for longer than 6 months.  With everything being fine until about two months ago, I was shocked to find out my partner was seeing a mutual friend behind my back.  Initially I was completely unwilling to be okay with the idea of my boyfriend seeing someone else, but now I find myself going with the flow.

You know, on one hand I just can’t tolerate the dishonesty.  On the flip side of the coin, it’s really hard to picture us apart, and have even promised to fight for him.  He has said he was responsible, but he still doesn’t see what he did was bad.  The fact that the girl – my friend, his lover – acts like it’s not a big deal just makes it worse, because I’m not sure how much of what she says I can believe.  I just feel like someone who doesn’t matter because he cheated on me.

This is what I would like to know: Should I just be okay with my boyfriend’s infidelity? And can I convince my boyfriend to not see her anymore?

Here is what we said to Danielle:

Hey – there are a multitude of causes behind men wanting something different.  It’s possible that your boyfriend cannot handle temptation well, and when your friend was willing to be with him, he couldn’t stay away.  I know that you are split between staying as a friend or as a lover, and between being single and staying with him.

Even though you try your hardest to believe every bit of this, you still feel like you’ve been wronged, and I don’t blame you.  I think the issue at hand here is you aren’t sure who to believe.  You are told one thing by your boyfriend and then told something else by your friend. If you believe something is amiss, then you’re probably on target.

My advice? If you hae had enough, then you have to tell your boyfriend how his philandering has made you feel uncomfortable with what went on.  You can also reveal to your friend just how hurt you were and how you would like for her and your guy to not communicate anymore.  All you have to do is say in no uncertain terms that the cheating won’t continue.

Finally, I can definitely tell you that you aren’t to blame.  Unless you left them alone on purpose, which could have led them to believe that you were okay with it, then it’s not you.  Your boyfriend probably feels the same way about her as he does with the person he’s supposed to be with.  He probably desires change and likes playing the field.  This ultimately means that his game involves having you and her too.

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