Law of Attraction Coach

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Here are the results from a survey done by a well-known dating site.

Choose the most important aspects of a lover:

1. Appearance 11%

2. Personality 30%

3. Body 5%

4. Sense of Humor 14%

5. Eyes 10%

6. Popularity 0%

7. Smile 12%

8. Hair 7%

9. Education 7%

10. Career 3%

As you can see, personality rated top, overwhelmingly!

What does this mean for a person? What does it say about the dater and the datee? It means that personality, no matter what end of the table you are on, is a desired trait from either person’s point of view.

Now, ‘Appearance’ is often viewed as an external personification of a person’s persona. But as you can see, ‘Personality’ was ranked number one. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging demeaner, warmth, and being authentic are the characteristics that win out over physical appearance. So many of us are caught up on physical appearance, we get halted before we get started. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Using an independent listener to check in with can help you move away from old patterns much faster.

What are traits of personality? Being confident. Self-confidence to be exact. The capability of relaxing, enjoying, and communicating in easy and engaging matters. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and is not hard to understand.

What are basic characteristics of self-confidence?

1. Knowing what you want.

2. Being assured of yourself. Being sure that what you desire is within your reach.

3. Esteem. Knowing you’re worthy of what you want.

4. Poise. In most situations you stay calm.

What I am pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearances. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive energy!

A lot of people I’ve met, whether they’re going back into the dating game, or simply thinking about it get stopped with the externals of the game. “I am not a spring chicken anymore.” “I cannot compete with the attractive people.” “The singles scene seems so superficial.”

That kind of mental dialogue will never get you back out into circulation. Feeling confident, having an engaging attitude, and simply keeping a ready, real smile and acting kindly, are the winners of the day. Remember that you don’t need to do the singles dating scene. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t define yourself by what others are saying.

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