Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
“I don’t want to be hurt again, but I truly want to find my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you have had adequate time in between the hurt in your past relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s quicker and simpler than you might think. Getting help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are creating new area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I can hear some of you right now saying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be drained away from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. What’s more, that little energy trickle prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment, do you imagine you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that burden you, clutter up your energy field and prevent you from going in the right direction to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiveness can be a complicated one. First off, I am not speaking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone’s poor behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to understand what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either create more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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