Helen from Ohio asked me about forgiving her Ex so she could get past the pain with her life. Helen really desires to attract a soul mate that will not only last a long time, but one that will also become more intimate with time. Many can relate to that question. They can understand the hurt they’re holding on to from a past failed relationship. Relationship coaching for your relationship, whether it ended years ago or is a current marriage can help. A few law of attraction coaching sessions specific to your relationship problems can be wonderfully helpful.
Before you read any further, you need to pat yourself on the back for actually ATTEMPTING to forgive your ex. That’s a big deal. If you will set your intention to give away a tiny bit each day, within a very short time you’ll see your energy release and lighten. It’s a necessity to release even for those who don’t think there’s anything left to forgive. Forgiveness is a process and one that releases YOU the most. Another great exercise is to choose some thoughts that you love about your previous mate. It doesn’t have to be related to the relationship. Perhaps you enjoyed the way he fixed things. Or you appreciated what a good circle of buddies he has. Maybe you loved his smile. It can be whatever you want. The point is to begin to search for qualities that you appreciated. You do this for no other reason than to change your energy about him. You release yourself.
When you forgive yourself and others you create space. Space to create more of what’s wanted. And for all of us, what’s desired is to receive more love. I coach all about releasing, clearing out and making room both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.
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